The Party We Refuse
We all think we know the story of the Prodigal Son. We love the imagery of the wandering child hitting rock bottom, remembering home, and running back into the arms of a lavishly graceful father. But what if that beautiful reunion is actually just the setup? What if the real trap of Luke 15 is aimed directly at those of us who think we’ve been in the right all along?
The Kind of Person Who Notices a Miracle
What if the miracle in Acts 8 didn’t begin on the road to Gaza? Let’s look at the story of Philip and the Ethiopian official, not as a random supernatural interruption, but as the culmination of a life shaped by wisdom, attention, and care for overlooked people.
The Lost Sheep Doesn't Make Sense
Sometimes just the presence of difference around us can read like persecution to us. Difference does not take away our ability to live as we want, but it does take away our ability to feel like we’re normal while we do it.
Searching for Common Ground
Conviction, disagreement, difference, even debate. None of those things are bad. In fact, they all have an incredibly important place to play in our lives. But a generative faith starts not with where we can eke out a win, and instead from the place of searching out our common ground and building bridges that allow our differences to actually be held in relationship.
Less Smartphone for Mom and Dad
Why we’ve chosen to delay giving our 12-year-old a smartphone, drawing on recent research about the effects of screens, social media, and attention on kids’ mental health.
Making Peace, Not Just Keeping It
Jeremy Duncan shares a simple but powerful tool that transformed his marriage. Learn how understanding your conflict style—toward, away, or against—can help you stop keeping the peace and start making it. Perfect for anyone navigating tension in marriage, friendship, or family.
What Do You Really Want?
Is the problem our desires—or how little we understand them? Paul invites us to rethink the narrative around desire. Instead of suppressing what we want, what if we’re called to interrogate those longings—to uncover what’s beneath them and align our lives with what is truly good? This is not about shame or denial. It’s about discovering peace. Shalom. And choosing the path that leads to wholeness.
Wives Submit, Slaves Obey?
Some of the New Testament’s most difficult verses come wrapped in household codes—lines like “wives submit” and “slaves obey.” But what if these weren’t endorsements of the status quo, but subtle acts of subversion? So let’s explore the cultural context behind Paul’s letters, the deep logic of mutual submission, and the cosmic conviction that all things are being reconciled in Christ. A thoughtful, honest look at Scripture for anyone wrestling with power, patriarchy, and peace.
Letting Go of Illusions: When Faith Matures
What happens when someone you looked up to lets you down — and what does that teach us about our faith? We explore how the illusions we create — about people, mentors, and even Jesus — can set us up for profound disappointment.
Masculinity Again: Testosterone and Personality
In the last conversation, we explored gender roles—how they’re shaped by average male biology, coded into social expectations, and then returned to us as a script. In that sense, masculinity is both a product of biology and social formation. What it means to be a man will shift depending on the cultural context. And even within those contexts, each man’s experience will be uniquely shaped by their own story.
Forgiveness and Boundaries: Holding Grace and Ground Together
Today we unpack one of the most difficult lines in the Lord’s Prayer — and shows why it’s not about earning God’s favor, but about learning to live in a new kind of world.
Healthy Masculinity: not Patriarchy
Let’s take a direct yet compassionate look at the evolving conversation around masculinity. Responding to online critiques of his take on the Lord’s Prayer, Jeremy challenges the narrow, often toxic definitions of what it means to lead, protect, and provide as a man—without leaning on outdated patriarchal ideals. This talk isn’t about tearing down masculinity; it’s about rebuilding it with depth, nuance, and honesty.
Living in the Light of What Is Possible
“If you don’t forgive others, your Father will not forgive you.” Is Jesus really making forgiveness a condition for being loved by God?
What Do We Owe Each Other? Rethinking Forgiveness in the Lord’s Prayer
What did Jesus mean when he taught us to pray, “Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors”?
Friendship Is Better Than Sex?
In 2 Samuel, David makes a striking statement about his best friend Jonathan: “Your love for me was more wonderful than that of a woman.” This has sparked endless debates—was this just deep friendship, or was there something more? But maybe our discomfort with this question says more about us than it does about David and Jonathan.
Tell Me More: The Gift of Attention
Attention is one of the most valuable resources we have. Every day, we make unconscious decisions about what we notice, what we ignore, and where we focus our energy. These decisions are shaped by heuristics—mental shortcuts that help us process the overwhelming amount of information we take in.
Not Villains, But Neighbors: Rethinking Jesus and the Pharisees
We are exploring the often misunderstood relationship between Jesus and the Pharisees. While the Pharisees are frequently seen as the “villains” of the New Testament, there is much more nuance to their interactions with Jesus.
All Theology is Biography
All theology is biography. That is a paraphrase of something I once heard Fredrick Beuchner say. I love it. Because the truth is, all of the ways we imagine the Divine are a product of all of the experiences we have had throughout our lives. And that is a feature not a bug.
Trust in Recession: Rediscovering Friendship in a Fractured World
My guess is that we all have some general sense of the increasing lack of trust in society. And this is leading to a whole host of problems including more antisocial behaviors. Thing is, there is a lot of data that shows us a clear correlation between the number of self identified close friends we have and patterns of healthy social behaviours in our lives.
React. Respond.
Have you ever noticed the asterisk in the Gospel of Mark? It's right there at the end of chapter 16, verse 8, and it signifies that this is where the Gospel originally ended. The tomb is empty, but Jesus is nowhere in sight, and the women are running in fear. What a strange place to end. It's so strange that a couple of centuries later, someone took it upon themselves to add a better, happier ending. But I like the original version because I think it reminds us of the difference between our reactions and our responses and what we chose to allow to become our story.